Saturday, July 3, 2010

Man Best Friend


"I had broke-up with my boyfriend" says MeiLan, my friend, in casual and matter of fact manner. The question "Why?" sprang-up to my mind, though, I was not surprise because she broke-off with boyfriends so often that I loss count who is who. The last I heard, the guy seems to be a perfect fellow for husband and she was considering marriage. He was well-to-do, lived in a bungalow with decent family and good background, and without any vice character. He willingly spent on her, brought her to vacation, and took good care of her. Anyway before I could put on a sympathy look to ask her why, she already spilled-out her story.
Broken Heart
Yeah, I am not close this MeiLan. Sorry to say I find her quite fake and irritating. *Sigh* I don't how and why I befriended her. Below is MeiLan's BaZi Chart. I don't have her hour of birth. Since I don't intend to tell her that I am posting her in my blog, I am not going to ask her, her time of birth. =P

MeiLan's BaZi Chart

Actually I wanted to check-out her guy's BaZi chart more than her. I think it would look more interesting than her BaZi Chart. Are you able to guess why she dumps her so perfect boyfriend? I will reveal the answer later on. I had checked with my teacher, Sherwin Ng, what to look for in the BaZi Chart, and I have included the clue into the above chart.

A brief introduction of MeiLan for your easy guessing:

As you all know she is single, and had a good record number of boyfriends by now. Not that she goes out with several guys at the same time but she did changed boyfriend frequently. She had known to be involved with married men before, and quite a spendthrift herself. Every now and then she would become a miser, and that was a clear sign that she had broken-off with someone again. Needless to say, guys also willingly spent on her.

At the moment she works as an administrator. She had worked in sales and also an insurance agent. She did quite well selling insurance but gave up her job due to emotional issue on her separation with his boyfriend at that time.

She is a dog lover but had since given away her pet due to lack of space in her home. She could spend a lot on her pet even though she was on a very tight budget. Sometimes money was so short that she had little to buy her own food.
Happy Guessing

The Story Behind

Both MeiLan and her boyfriend, let call him Jack, actually is dog lover. However, their separation was also caused by the dog. You see, Jack iss leaving with his parents and sibling. His family, all of them is naturally dog lover as well. Her sister alone has three dogs. To sum it up, there are exactly nine dogs leaving together with Jack and his family. Nine dogs seem like a lot but you must have thought since MeiLan likes dog too, what’s the big deal? Well, all the dogs are living inside the house and not at the garden or outside. Of course, as you would have guess the house smells, although it did look clean. MeiLan had suggested giving away some of the dogs or at least keep the dogs out but the advice had fall into deaf ear. So I guess since the dogs were staying she opted herself out.

To tell you the truth, the BaZi Chart do look more like a third party problem but both MeiLan and Jack was not seeing anyone at the moment. May be a guy or a girl may come into picture later but I doubt Jack would leave MeiLan for anyone because the Yi do combine with the Geng, and was supported by the element of Luck Pillar.Reversed engineering makes analysing the BaZi Chart easier.

101 Dalmations
Analysis:

A pet is represented by the Output Star which is the Eating God in this case. This is because you need to take care of the pet like taking of a child. I had added the clue in a pictorial (doggy photo) method into the chart since the dogs are involved. Hence, the Xu Dog is brought into the picture, which is a half combination with the Yin Tiger that formed the output element and pushed out the Wu Horse. 

The BaZi chart is actually cold so Fire is needed by the Yi Wood Day Master as well as the Direct Officer Star [Geng Metal]. However, the degree of heat the Yi Wood need is different compared with the Geng Metal. It was obvious that the Geng Metal likes more of the output element. It brought warm as well as forged the Geng Metal so more heat is needed. In other words, the more the dogs are around the merrier it is to her boyfriends as well as his siblings [Other Geng which appeared on the Shen Monkey on the branch of the Luck Pillar, Year Pillar and Annual Stem]. 

While for MeiLan case, her Yi Wood only needed some warm created by the Xu Dog combination with Mao Rabbit which is supported of the Jia Wood in Yin Tiger on the annual luck cycle. Notice the Zi Rat is clashing away the Wu Horse which means she felt uncomfortable with amount dogs running around in Jack’s home and dislike the possibility that she might need to take care so many of them.
Josephine

30 comments:

Anonymous said...

Is it because there is another better suitor (Geng appearing in AP) and hence she dumps her so perfect boyfriend? I am considered new to bazi reading but read before that Yi wood DM are rather attractive people..

Josephine said...

No there isn't another suitor yet. Try again. :D

SL said...

Wow, fast reply. =) How do I get notified on any comments posted in this post (can't seem to find application which provide this function)?

-SL-

SL said...

I shall try again..

Her direct officer star (Geng) is rooted in shen (monkey) in the year pillar. However, this year, the Yin (tiger) clashes out with the Shen (monkey). Plus in her luck pillar (Jia Shen), the Jia wood represents a competitor - is there another woman in the relationship?

Josephine said...

The Post Atom (Comments) is not working. I'll look into it. :)

Josephine said...

I also think it is hard to guess. May be if I have the hour, it would be easier. Tips: The problem is actually related to pet a.k.a. dog. Hence, suggested by Teacher Sherwin to post the dog=XU there.

Anonymous said...

The Zi Mao punishment in natal chart means problematic relationship in general.
Based on your tip about the Dog, could it be a Yin Xu combo pushing up Wu which destructs the spouse palace affecting relationship. Then the Mao Xu combo , she has more affinity with the Dog than the biyfriend!! Ha Ha !
Could it also be Shen DO star clashing Yin AP. Yin being Gen Gua which can be represented by dog as well. Boyfriend upset with the dog !

Anonymous said...

no, i dont think that yi wood DM are more attractive. unfortunately, many of them tend to be only average or below average. the attractive ones are ding and xin.

怡保老世 said...

Geng (DO) in Shen branch clashes out into Yin (Tiger). Inside Yin is Jia, Rob Wealth or better represented as other women i.e. her competitors. Since being dumped her bf is an act of betrayal on the guys rather than her doing the dumping, it's probably a silent push of You (rooster) once the Xu (estimated hour branch) meets the Shen in LP. Besides that, the Shen in LP also has an advanced combo relationship with Mao, signified as DO combining with other Yi wood folks.

Carol Lam said...

is it true that generally yi wood people are manipulative and self centred?

Josephine said...

Sorry 怡保老世, I put the Dog picture at the hour branch because there was an empty space there. It not actually the estimate hour of her birth. But the dog do play significant role as it is the reason why she dumbed her boyfriend. So you can use the dog to represent the Xu. I also think the silent push of Wu is more appropriate.

Josephine said...

Carol,
Not all Yi Wood are manipulative and self-center. We have to look at the whole BaZi chart to determine the character. A person with good self-control can actually suppress his or her negative side too. Therefore not every Yi Wood is bad.

NWj said...

She will usually have relationship problems due to Yi Mao self pillar is not good for relationship, zi mao punishment, peach blossom stars all in natal chart.

She needs fire and she loves dog because of Mao Xu, where Xu can represent boyfriends (Xin) with money (Wu) and also will make her happy with the introduction of fire. But unfortunately fire will not form due to season of birth and could be the reason for constant changing of boyfriends in search of fire.

In the Geng Yin year, if the dog was still around before the break up, it can be caused by the Yin Xu fire formation pushing up Wu fire. Fire should make her happy although potential problem is brewing. When Wu month arrives, Wu destructs Mao, a betrayal, Wu clash Zi, emotional issues and activating the Mao Zi punishment also an act of betrayal. Together with the Shen (DO) Yin (RW) clash, she dumps the boyfriend due to suspicion of betrayal by boyfriend with a RW, a competitor. I said suspicion as RW is not revealed and there is IR effect and lots of metal and water in chart during the period.

However, analysing it further, I suspect, the same outcome to happen even if the dog was not around at the time of the breakup. If Xu is gone, the self pillar combo will break – no more Xin boyfriend star and the longest the relationship will hold is probably until Wu month.

Regards,
NWj.

SL said...

Hi Josephine,

Will you be providing your analysis on this case? ;)

Anonymous said...

Is it true that the self pillar chart with Friend star in stem means there will be 3rd party problem? How to read whether the person will be betrayed or the other way around?

Josephine said...

Hi,
Possible but the Friend Star also represents your sibling. Overall reading of the BaZi Chart to give a more accurate answer. It would be hard to just pinpoint a theory and apply to all.

Anonymous said...

Hi Josephine,
What does a friend star indicate if its next to the DM in the month pillar?

Josephine said...

Please refer to the answer above. A friends Star beside the DM can means many things depending on its interaction & relationship with other elements in the charts.

Jo

Anonymous said...

A friend also show me her daughters chart which is slightly similar to Mei Lan's chart. She is also Day Pillar Yi/Mao & her month Pillar Xin/Hai but her daughter is attractive and not manipulative. She is also told that her daughter will be betrayed this year due to the friend star + RW (month pillar), same as Mei Lan? Do you think she is a weak DM? A cold chart & needs Fire? I like to know how to help her avoid any betrayal when there is a clash in the pillars?

Josephine said...

May I suggest you read the link http://www.facebook.com/BaziChic#!/photo.php?pid=6545750&id=147796208624
By the way the answer to your question is water.
Cheers
Jo

Anonymous said...

The weak chart is dry? Is Bing also a useful God? I read your post in FB. Please reply? We hope to understand the chart, discuss and perhaps determine cause of problem,map out course of action & prepare for potential challenges. Also hope a consultant could help to prepare the person to understand what changes to make or what steps to take to cushion effect. Alas to say, I'm still a learner so cant help much. Thanks.

Josephine said...

My Dear,
You sound like you wanted a full consult for your friend's daughter BaZi rather than having a discussion, sharing of info or learning BaZi in general. I am sorry this post is about MeiLan. I don't mind giving a tips here and there for simple questions but from your serious comments, may I suggest a BaZi consultation for your friend's daughter. You can email me at jphang75@gmail.com for further information.

Anonymous said...

It's only a minor problem. I posted it coz it looks similar and yet so different and I also want to learn from clashes. I have also commented on a few other issues in your blog earlier and noted your interest and your sound reading. Free reading is not what I expect so no harm done.

Josephine said...

Haiz, thought someone really in serious trouble so you are so worried. Is okay. :)

My answer is still water as it smooth away the clash. Metal produces water in turn produce wood. Water to her is Resource Star.

Anonymous said...

Thanks, Josephine. I hope I am not abusing by trying to compare your chart with another but was basically learning to read. sokay... place big barrels of water around! How can a resource star help even in other readings? You mean more communication or a water person to mediate. Sorry, my knowledge is module 1 only.

Josephine said...

Hmmmn...You sound sarcastic, you know but I wanna laugh. Wuahahaha! :P Well, you can try putting water for Feng Shui purpose to help [Yang solution]. Not because the water in her chart is able to help her but the water can use to activate certain good location at home. I can't help much on this though as I did not know the orientation of her house.

Well, sorry to say this, whether your knowledge is module 1 or higher, there is no excuse for not putting on your thinking cap.

Yang solution [External] Look for someone with water element to help, to be the mediator of the problem, argument, etc.

Yin solution [Internal] What is the Resource Star characteristic? A thinker. Think before you say something or before an action or reaction. There are some events we can’t change in life so take thing easy, don't delve on the pass too much. Learn the lesson and move-on. Be nice to everyone, and to herself too.

Anonymous said...

Yes, Josephine... didnt our Master sarcastically mention the placement of water or perhaps wearing ornaments to represent metal if it's missing in the chart!

The resource star is also nobleman so I guess she already has people around to help her & probably internally she already has the skills to overcome it. Can we also conclude that since the resource star is needed & already present it's already a favorable star in the chart?

I also enjoy reading your blog, makes a person think & provide us with an insight which is difficult to obtain outside.
Thank yous.

Josephine said...

Not sure we share the same Master/teacher. I think he kind of hates people who start talking about placement of ornaments except water.

Yes, you reading is right. Bravo!

Sometimes I am sarcasm mood too and it kind of reflect on my posts. Don't know how people take it. I'm glad that you like my blog and you're most welcome.

Anonymous said...

Joey is the Master.

Whichever mood you are in, the blog is yours and you are entitled to your feelings. If anyone dislike it, then stop visiting, right? Sometimes we try to please people but unable to make everyone happy at the same time.

I am satisfied that we have the option to post our comments and you response here which is very helpful for lay people like us and help us in our learning process although I'm sure at times you feel like blasting us away...heh.

Josephine said...

Thank you for your kind support. :-)
Hahaha! I'm sure there are times some people outside feel like blasting me too.

Jo